Jan 16, 2014
Do you want to make your ex boyfriend miserable? Do you wish he was feeling some of the unrelenting emotional pain you are? It’s so difficult when you’ve been dumped by a man you love and you suspect that he’s moved on with his life without so much as a second thought to you. You’re frustrated, sad and angry over this. All you really want is for him to regret the break up and beg you to come back to him. It can’t be that hard to make that happen, can it? It’s actually not. You can make your ex feel just as miserable as he’s made you feel and all the while he’ll start wishing he had you back.
The first, and arguably most important step to make your ex boyfriend miserable is to dump him too. You’re likely wondering how this is even possible given the fact that he’s already broken up with you. Your boyfriend has enough emotional insight to know that you’re the one in pain right now. He likely knows that if he called you up and told you to come over, you’d break a speed record getting there. He knows you’re desperate and he knows you want him back. Your first goal is to prove him wrong.
Gather yourself, put away the tears, dress in an incredibly hot outfit and call him up. Ask him to meet you. When that happens arrive a few minutes late so you can make an entrance. Be cordial to him but not affectionate. Ask how he is, make a bit of small talk and then you’re going to emotionally slap him. Tell him that you asked him to meet you so you could thank him for the break up. He won’t know what hit him. Explain that you’ve given things a lot of thought and you realize now what a good decision it was. Don’t explain beyond that. Just wish him well and walk away. In one full swoop you’ve just made him feel the same unrelenting sense of rejection you feel.
The next part of your plan to get him to ache for you is to stop talking to him. Forget his phone number and delete his email address. Don’t reach out to him in any way for a few weeks. Instead, start living your life again. Go out, have fun, smile and laugh. Do the things you’ve missed doing. Flirt a bit with other men, go to the spa or do some volunteer work. Do anything it takes to start enjoying your life again.
Once your ex hears about your behavior, he’ll be saddened. He’ll realize that you’ve moved on and all chance he had with you might be slipping away for good. Once that happens, expect a deluge of phone calls and text messages. The moment a man realizes that he can no longer have a woman, he wants her. So become someone who is just out of his reach and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.