When you get to that point that you realize that there is a particular woman that you would like to date, you can find yourself feeling pressure to flirt with her in a way that you didn’t before you really came to that realization. It’s funny that it works like that, how you can go from feeling almost no pressure at all to feeling a ton of it, but that is something that most men have to deal with. If you don’t find a way to flirt with her so that her attraction for you grows, you might not get the chance to end up dating her. So, it is important that you do figure out what you need to do to make her attraction grow.
Here are some tips for flirting with a woman that you want to date so that she starts to feel the same way:
1. Use humor as a way to get the ball rolling.
Time and time again, you’ll see that if you can make a woman laugh, that is usually more than enough to make her want to spend time one on one with you. You might be worried that you are not funny enough, but the truth is that you don’t really have to be the funniest guy. You just have to find out what it is that makes HER laugh, so that you end up making her feel like she wants to spend time with you alone.
2. Find a way to ask questions that get her to reveal stuff about her, but still seems fun.
You can ask a woman questions in a way that seems like you are digging for information, but that usually ends up making her feel like she is on the spot and it almost always breaks rapport. What you want to do is to ask questions that lead the conversation in a fun direction, while at the same time helping you get to know what makes her tick.
3. Use your body language as a way to flirt with her.
When two people’s body language starts to mirror one another’s, there is an instant sense of belonging that you and her are going to feel. You want her to feel that way. Plus, the body can speak on an instinctual level, which can trigger attraction extremely quickly when it is done right. Most guys ignore the fact that body language is so important, and that is why they don’t end up having an easy time with women. You want to use your body language to your advantage so that it DOES make her feel more attracted to you when you are flirting with her.