Singapore is known as the town of passion, craze and love. Months before the Valentine’s Day, amazing preparations are being made to enjoy the day in a unique Singaporean way. History shows that Singapore has gone through many social invasions over the passing of time. They regard asian art, lifestyle and ancient activities, especially the loving ones. The atmosphere in Singapore is loaded with endless adventures with a sequence of happening activities, coming one after the other that desire guests to hurry to Singapore. However, nothing can match the happening time, you can have with the beautiful models in Singapore.
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Having a higher income or education than your partner could be risky, as a higher socio-economic status than one’s partner increases the chance of psychological violence and abuse. This applies to both men and women. “Whenever power is unevenly allocated in a relationship the chance of physical and psychological abuse increases. And the abused partner is the one with the highest status,” says a sociologist.
Are adolescents today “sexting” for popularity? Mobile phones are fully integrated into the social lives of today’s teenagers, and offer a sense of autonomy for those looking to hide from adult supervision. Concerns have risen over the use of the mobile phone as an instrument to download, produce, and distribute sexual imagery and a growing number of studies on adolescent mobile communication report that the consumption and distribution of pornographic imagery via mobile phones is common in adolescent peer groups.
Though very few studies have asked “why” adolescents choose to participate in sexting or the use of mobile porn, those that have asked “why” continually point to the influence of peer group dynamics. In a new study featured in the “Sex and the Media” issue of Routledge’s Media Psychology, authors Mariek Vanden Abeele, Ph.D., Scott W Campbell, PhD., Steven Eggermont, PhD., and Keith Roe, PhD shed light on the connection between teen’s sexting and mobile porn use, and their social status in the article “Sexting, Mobile Porn Use and Peer Group Dynamics: Boys’ and Girls’ Self-Perceived Popularity, Need for Popularity, and Perceived Peer Pressure.”
“We were intrigued by the fact that most teens appear aware of the potential risks of sexting, but nevertheless still commit to producing and distributing nude or semi-nude pictures of themselves to their peers,” says Dr. Mariek Vanden Abeele, discussing her and her coauthors interest in studying this topic. “We felt that a possible explanation for the fact that teenagers engage in sexting practices despite the obvious risks, could lie in the role of powerful peer group dynamics such as peer pressure and popularity. We also noticed that teenagers’ mobile porn use received little attention from both scholars and public opinion leaders, while current research suggests that this behavior is fairly prevalent among teens.”
Interview studies with adolescents show that there is pressure to participate in sexting and mobile porn use in order to achieve peer acceptance, providing evidence that both behaviors are ‘used’ to display or gain status in a social circle. (Bond, 2010; Lenhart, 2009; Lippman & Campbell, 2012; Ringrose et al., 2012). Drawing from the results of a large scale quantitative survey study, this study examined how four key aspects of peer group dynamics, namely same-sex popularity, other-sex popularity, perceived peer pressure and need for popularity, are associated with sexting and mobile porn use among teenagers ages 11-20.
“A first interesting result in the study, is that for boys sexting was associated with higher (self-perceived) popularity among both boys and girls, while girls who reported having sent a sext indicated perceiving themselves as more popular among boys, but less popular among girls,” explains Dr. Vanden Abeele. “A second interesting result from our study is that mobile porn use was reported almost exclusively by male respondents, particularly by boys who experienced greater peer pressure. This finding aligns with what we know from earlier work on the consumption of magazine and video pornography in male peer groups, and suggests that downloading and exchanging mobile porn may be at least as much about proving one’s ‘manliness’ to others as it is about achieving sexual arousal.”
Dr. Vanden Abeele says the results of this study suggest that, in the eyes of teenagers, sexting and mobile porn use do bring short-term benefits in terms of enhancing popularity in the peer group that may in fact outweigh potential long-term risks associated with these behaviors.
Don’t portray yourself as bashful if you are really flamboyant. Some people’s personalities clash with those of other people. You want be able to keep up the façade for long. Besides, you don’t want to waste anyone’s time or cause them unnecessary suffering. Your mate will sense that something about you is not on the up-and-up and either lose interest or begin distancing himself from you if he is already emotionally involved.
Check-out your male friends
While you are hanging out with the fellows, pay attention to the ones that you enjoy being around the most. Take note of the things they have in common. For example, do they all have the same zodiac sign, do the same type of work, or are they all around the same age? It would be a good idea to pursue this type of guy more seriously.
Confide in the opposite sex
Your female friends and acquaintances may not know as much about men as they think they do. And much of what many of them think they know is speculation. You don’t interact with women the same as you do with men. So your male counterparts will be better able to tell you what issues you have that are keeping you from getting a man.
Know your place in his life
Take into consideration what is going on in your life right now. Are you experiencing emotional or financial hardship? There’s a good chance that you are not ready for a relationship. The guy you are interested in pursuing at this time may have only come into your life to deliver a message or only as a friend. If you do become involved at this time, he may become overwhelmed by your issues and walk away. Or then again he may stick around—preventing you from meeting or keeping the next guy you were meant to have a relationship with in the future.
Behave as if you already have a man
Men are known for liking and disliking certain things about women. They are attracted to and want to be around women who are well-groomed, active, and friendly.
Get rid of any preconceived notions you have about men
This doesn’t mean you should throw caution to the wind. But if you approach and treat each member of the opposite sex as if the are likeable and worthy of love and affection, your experience with them can be unique and enjoyable.
Jan 16, 2014
Learning how to get back your ex boyfriend can mean the difference between a future with the man you are crazy about and one without him. Too often after a break up we rely on our emotions to guide us to win back his love. If you’ve been in this situation you know that it just doesn’t work. When we feel heartbroken we find ourselves doing things that are destructive like calling our ex over and over again pleading with him for another chance or camping out outside his home hoping he’ll see that as a sign of unwavering devotion. The fact of the matter is that unless you truly understand how a man’s mind works, you’ll never be able to get him back for good.
Understanding how to get back your ex boyfriend starts with recognizing that he needs space. Men don’t handle emotional situations the same way we do. They tend to need a cooling off period to think through things. If you’re always calling, emailing or texting and not allowing him any breathing room, he’s going to resent you more. In addition, he’s probably going to feel justified in ending the relationship. So what exactly should you be doing, if not trying to convince him to take you back? You should be giving him the space he needs. One of the best tips to win back an old flame is to disappear for a few weeks. Cut off all contact. You may worry that this will result in him forgetting about you, but the opposite is actually true. He’ll miss you and wonder about you and actually start to worry that you’ve forgotten him.
Another thing to always remember when you are considering how to get back your ex boyfriend is to not wallow in your sorrow. Don’t spend endless nights at home alone mourning the end of the relationship. If you and your boyfriend had any mutual friends, he’s going to hear about your behavior. Instead, put on a brave face, dust off your heart and go out and have fun. You want your ex to believe that you’re okay without him. Men always want to take on a challenge. If your ex sees that you’re fine after the split, he’s going to immediately see you as a challenge again so brush yourself off and start living your life again. This will draw him back to you.
Dating can be a nightmare for women who are at age 40. At this age a lot is happening. It could be family commitments, work or even fear of frustrations. Here are some of the guides to successful dating for women at 40:
1. Be available
Create some time out of your busy schedule to meet up with people. Be there to meet someone to go out with. It is worth a try, instead of staying at home and waiting for it to happen.
2. Be interesting.
Avoid talking about the period you have spent since you had a man. Avoid majoring you talk on your children or your pets. This could turn the men away. Men will not want to talk for a long time if you are negative. If you do not suppose that you have something interesting to say in person, talk about anything going on around you. In case you are playing a game, you could talk about it or if you are in a bar, you can talk about the crazy drunk chicks trying to sing karaoke.
3. Be attractive.
You do not need to be attractive. Do not assume you know what guys are looking for. Show them that you care about how you look. Dress well when going out for dinner. Keep your hair kempt. It does not take much to men you are interested in on the way up.
Be honest about what is it that you are looking for. It does not matter if you are looking for a life partner or a hook-up. There are men who are looking for life partner or just connection. If you are honest about what you are looking for, you are likely to find a man with the similar goals as you.
5. Have fun
Ensure you have fun. Some women restrain from having fun because they think they are old what they donâ€™t know is that you’re old when you stop having fun. Many women can get self-conscious about their age. When dating get yourself and have fun, and you will be surprised how many people will be attracted by your energy!
6. Use your dating experience in an appropriate manner.
Whether you recently went through a messy divorce or have had several long-term relationships and you are ready for a relationship, you probably have some (if not a lot) of dating experience. As a 40 year-old, ensure that you do not “leak” negative knowledge in a new relationship that you find yourself in.
It’s a good thing that you have learned in past relationships, remember, but it would be a good idea to check with a dating coach, to ensure that you carry with you the right things.
7. Be mature.
Ladies, a bit older you are, this is a mature relationship and you should act like it, just like your partner should. This is not all about crushes and high school romance, this is serious. That does not mean, however, you should not flirt, should not play some of the games, but you always have to be mature about it.
If you are using online dating ensure that:
Your profile can sell you. Avoid stating a list of your likes and dislikes. Instead describe yourself and paint a picture of what it feels like to be in a relationship with you. Focus more on what you have to offer. This will attract the right man.
The profile is not too needy or giving the impression that you have high expectations or reliance in the relationship.
Your profile is not boring and not negative.
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FORGIVENESS is the glory of God because it reveals the will of the LORD to universal divine delight. All those on the side of God are on the side of forgiveness. Only those haters and enviers are happy with unresolved conflict. Theirs is a power struggle. Everything is a conquest of the ego. But not with the one who forgives. They see via the lens of God. And not only that: they seek to bring the will of heaven to earth. They do it because it is the right thing to do. They shelve their selfish agenda.
If human beings were inherently independent, it wouldn’t matter if someone had relationships with other people; as they would be able to just carry on with their life. But as human beings and everything else on this planet is interdependent, it means that relationships play a vital part in someone’s life.
And not only do relationships play a part in one being able to survive, they can also allow one to thrive. One only needs to meet one person and their whole life could change and one could have the same affect on another.
This is not just any change though; one area of one’s life or their whole life could be elevated. From that moment onwards, their life is never the same again. Although this is the ideal, it is also possible for one to meet someone who doesn’t enhance their life.
What they do is make their life difficult and ones wellbeing is likely to erode when they are in their presence. And even when one is not around them, they could feel decentred.
Just because someone has a relationship with another person, it doesn’t mean that this is based around them having an emotional connection. This could be classed as a surface level connection; with one just sharing what they have been doing and not about how they have been feeling.
Of course, one is not necessarily going to have the need to express how they feel all of the time, but in this kind of relationship, this is something that will never take place, no matter what is going on for them.
So when relationship doesn’t go into the emotional realm, it is unlikely going to have the same meaning as if this was the case. Talking about everyday events, what other people have been doing or what one thinks they should be saying, is not going to be enough.
However, when one has a relationship with another person and they do talk about how they feel and open up, without needing to moderate what they say, it is going to be a very different connection. And this could be with ones partner, a friend or a family member.
Not only are they opening their mind to this person, they are also opening their heart. This might sound a bit over the top and even something that only women can and should do, and yet both genders’ have the need to experience emotional connections with others.
The heart is where one feels and it is harder for one to open their heart than it is for them to open their mind. There is more at stake here and one has to feel that it is safe for them to open up.
If one doesn’t feel safe in another persons presence, they are not going to open up, at least voluntarily. And the same goes for others, if they don’t feel safe in ones presence, they won’t open up either.
This won’t just be the heart to hearts that can happen every now and then, it can be something that is part of every conversation that one has with another person. So, the difference between someone sharing every part of who they are or only sharing a small part of themselves.
When one does feel safe with another, it is generally going to be something that happens without them having to consciously think about it. This is not to say that one will always end trusting the right people though; as some people might put on an act in the early stages.
But with that aside, one will just feel safe and find it relatively easy to open up. If one was to break this process down, they would notice that certain things are happening and certain things are not happening.
And one of the biggest reasons why someone would feel that it is safe is because they feel accepted. The other person is giving them the impression verbally and non-verbally that they don’t have to watch what they say; revealing who they are can then be fairly straight forward.
This is not to say that one will feel safe straight away and yet this can happen. It will usually take a while and be a gradual process; with trust building each and every time another person accepts what they have to say.
When this trust has grown to a reasonable level, one will know that they can reveal who they are. Experiencing a deep and fulfilling connection will then be a natural consequence.
If one doesn’t feel safe, it is going to be due to them coming to the conclusion, either consciously or unconsciously, that the other person doesn’t accept them. It won’t be possible for one to feel safe and they will have no other choice than to close up.
Physically one might be there, but emotionally they could have checked out or they might end up leaving altogether.
Perhaps another person has verbally demonstrated this or it could be something that is done in ways that are more subtle. So consciously one might not know why they don’t feel an emotional connection and yet it’s just not there.
If someone is critical, judgemental or dismissive, it is unlikely that other people will want to open up to them. And when someone invalidates others or tells them what they should or should not be doing, is also going to lead to the same outcome.
So if one is wondering why they don’t open up to some people, then they might now realise why this is. And if one is wondering why other people don’t open up to them, they might also know why.
There is also the chance that one doesn’t trust people enough to open up, so it won’t matter if they are around people who can be trusted or not; as the outcome will always be the same.
It might be necessary for one to seek the assistance of a therapist, healer or a coach in order to move beyond these challenges, and/or to read up on relationships in order to increase their self awareness.
Prolific writer, thought leader and coach, Oliver JR Cooper hails from the United Kingdom. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation; love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With several hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behavior, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice. Current projects include “A Dialogue With The Heart” and “Communication Made Easy.”
We should know that there is no recipe of passion in an interracial relationship. Your grandmother might pass a famous pie recipe to you, however, she cannot write her emotional experience of life on index cards for you, because she never thinks that you would fall in an interracial love. Now let us talk about why an interracial relationship needs more passion to be last.
In an interracial relationship, it seems that the initial love, romance and happiness vanish after the early passion. Perhaps the fading of passion makes interracial couples start to feel the indifference between them. Coupled with the cultural barriers existing in all the interracial relationship, they have to end up with parting. Those couples who had ever been close gradually become a presence of life without love or passion. In fact, the affection usually intensifies (or disappears) for two reasons: First, we think love is eternal, jumps past race, but we forget to last. Second, we think that love is the whole end of living, so we always have unrealistic expectations.
Like medication, hot passion and fascination affect us, which make us feel the other side is so sexy and fun. Couples also ignore or accept the cultural differences when they are dwelling on these passions and fascination. The passion will also aggravate the secretion of adrenaline, which makes our minds keep repeating those loving scenarios. In the initial stage of love, we can even forget to eat and sleep. The hot love let us forget our pain, our sorrow, our work pressure and responsibility. And adrenaline is also quick to reach every vein of the body, so that we feel we are on the top of the world and dipping in happiness.
The media, public opinion and unrealistic expectations as well as the desire of new love and passion will make the existing relationship more and more weak. This may be the reason leading the recession of passion in other areas. We may forget the respect and extra care for lover when we transit from the early days of love to comfortable, stable phase. And there are more misunderstanding existing between interracial couples. In fact, we notice that people will be more relaxed when they are with their acquaintances, friends and lovers. The same applied to an interracial relationship. The situation may be just that: the idle habits and attitudes destroy the passion and intimacy between interracial couples too early. So devotion, communication and effort are needed to maintain a pleasant relationship.
Especially in an interracial relationship, couples need more passion and understanding to accept the differences and keep a long interracial love.
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Are you caught up in a self proclaimed relationship, and so overwhelmed and confused, that you do not know whether you are coming or going? Are you waiting for a wake-up call which will clearly delineate to you which side of the fence you are sitting on? Are you waiting for a reality check to mysteriously appear out of nowhere and embed itself into your brain so that you can formulate a plan to make a decision regarding your “relationship?”
If you answered “Yes” to any one of these questions, then you have already had your first wake up call. You just did not answer it as you did not want to know the truth. If you have reached this stage in your “relationship”, then there is no need for any more calls, signs, divine interventions, or anything else. Not only is your relationship over, but, brace yourself, it never started.
Friend, you have been suckered and now you have been sucker punched. To entertain the thought of being embarrassed is ridiculous, for you should be proud. You went into what you were made to believe was a relationship with the very best of intentions and emotions. The little worm that you entered into the relationship with should be ashamed, but they will never be, for emotional feelings are foreign to them. Take heart in knowing that you are not alone. Many have trodden on this thorny path, and sadly, many more will lift the barbed wire fence and also take this prickly path.
When you feel that you are not appreciated at all, but instead feel you are being punished for the problems of the other, then acknowledge the hurt, but also fully accept and be cognizant of the realization that indeed you are correct and you are being un-righteously punished, and understand that this is abuse. Be it verbal or be it silence, it is abuse. The one who plays the victim, and then delivers their punishment to you is the abuser and you have taken on the role of victim. You are choosing to carry their burdens as well as your own. If you do not heed this feeling, then you just missed yet another important wake-up call.
One of the meanest forms of cruelty is indifference. Even if the indifference is feigned, it is still cruel for any person to subject you to the pain of feeling that your emotions have no bearing or effect on their life. This cruelty will lead you to begin to blame yourself, and you will search for anything that you may have said or done, no matter how trivial, as a justification of the cruelty you are being subjected to. Throughout the pain, the shock, the disbelief, and the total inability to understand what is happening, you will torture your own mind to find a justification for this treatment. Why are you searching your mind? The answer is simple. It is because you are unable to probe into the other person’s mind. Due to the mere fact that we are taught that everything must have a logical explanation, we struggle to find one.
Abuse and human behavior need no logical explanation, and a good portion of human behavior never will have any explanation related to logical behavior. So is this your answer? Should you accept indifference with all of its pain because there is no rhyme or reason for it? No, not at all. This is yet another wake up call. You should really perhaps heed this one, for it may be the last one that is given before you become too helplessly trapped in the web of abuse to escape it. Your abuser’s insanity will replace any capability of reasoning that you have left, and before you know it, the ticking will have stopped, and the clock will be broken. Do not put these wakeup calls on “Snooze.” Too soon, the alarms will no longer go off, and your dreams will have become a seemingly endless living nightmare.
Answer the first wakeup call that you recognize, compose yourself, and leave. Close the door on this chapter of your life. The rest of the book is still waiting to be written, and you are the author.